My letters are typically published via email to your inbox, and I select a few every now and again to feature on the blog. Letter VI was originally published by email on 17th May 2019, and was re-published on the blog on 8th August 2019. Subscribe at chrismarr.co.uk
“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”– Stephen R. Covey
As a new step-dad, my relationship with Sophie is still developing. She was 15 when I first met her, and she’s turning 18 soon. We’ve lived together for over two years and this past year has been transformational for her.
- Passed her higher exams with incredible results
- Met her first boyfriend
- Secured her first job
- Passed her driving test and bought a car
She literally finished her final exam yesterday. In a few short months, she’ll be moving out of the family home and starting university in Edinburgh.
I forgot how much change there is at this time of our life. She seems to take it all in her stride. Confident, focused, determined and deliberate.
She’s an inspiring young lady.
It’s fair to say that Sophie has a lot going on in her life. A lot of choices and decisions to make.
To create and build the life we want, it really comes down to the decisions we make.
Our whole life is simply made up choices and decisions.
The way I see it, there are three paths when it comes to making decisions.
- You make a decision
- You don’t make a decision, or
- You do nothing – you make a decision to not make a decision.
What’s strikes me as interesting about decision making is that I can’t think of anyone at any time in my life teaching me how to make good decisions.
Seems to me like a huge gap in our learning and personal growth, don’t you think?Continue reading →